As a church webmaster, I’m often asked to help with congregational email issues. We’ve had our share of sticky wickets to deal with, so when our Director of Religious Education recently sent me an article on the subject, it struck a chord with me. I think there’s a good deal of wisdom and some great advice in it, and commend it to those of you responsible for church-related email: Email Caution Helps Avoid Damaging Situations, InterConnections (a quarterly publication of the Unitarian Universalist Association).

Using this article as a starting point, I’ve distilled a list of tips and added a couple of my own.

An Ounce of Prevention: General Rules for One and All

  1. Never say anything about someone in an email that you wouldn’t want that person to see.
  2. If someone wants to have an email conversation about either another person or a complicated issue, suggest meeting in person.

For Potentially Emotional Situations:

  1. Let your email sit overnight before sending it.
  2. Adopt a measured tone.
  3. Don’t forward emails of others without their permission.
  4. Remember that once you send an email you lose control of it; it can be copied, sent to others, and quoted out of context, even years later.

When Conflict Arises

  1. Stop the email.

For Official Congregational Email

  1. Establish congregational policies about email.
  2. For the congregation-wide list, limit access to certain leaders, and designate an editor.
  3. Don’t overuse it. Our church does a weekly email blast, and maybe once a month (for a major occasion), will send out a second short email.

Do you have other tips? I’d love to hear them.